I have 18 months and 4 days. Its hectic and full on for 12 months but does get easier!! But its also fun seeing them grow up together and kiss and cuddle.

DS1 was not walking when DS2 was born so that made things difficult as we have no off street parking so was exercise just to get to car!

DS1 didnt move to a bed until he was 2 as we had a bassinet for DS2 (not that he used it much).

You will cope because you have too there is no hard and fast rules!