Asks for Nappy for Poos

[sloane]

The kinder that ds is going to would prefer they are toilet trained but said if they aren't just to put them in pull ups because they don't have the facility to change nappies but the same as franipani said, a pull up is no different to changing a pair of undies.

If she had a spot she goes to poo, could you put a potty there? Same idea as the toilet but at least asher can be in her spot?

[goddessofdawn]

Actually when I said she asks for a "nappy" it is really a pull-up - Huggies nappy pants. I have put her potty in the same corner, but she won't sit on it.
Kindy goes for 2.5 hours, twice a week, so the chance of needing to do a poo then is pretty slim, but still.

And now, just over the last couple of days, she is starting to regress with weeing. Last night she asked for a pull-up to do a poo, but she only peed in it.
I made sure she understood that was not on, but she did it again tonight. Lied about needing a nappy to poo in, knowing she only needed to wee.
And she has started going 4-5 hours sometimes without weeing, and crying when she is told to wee. Not sure what to do now. Hopefully this is just temporary.

You all sound like your kindies are more easygoing than mine. Yours have said "prefer" to be tted but mine says "expected" to be tted.
I will try over Christmas and New Year to sort out the poo issue, but if it doesn't resolve by then I will get in touch with the director.

FRANGIPANI LOU ~ You work in a kindy? So what if I suggested that she wears knickers, but if she needs to do a poo she will tell them. Will they help her into a pull-up? And then they could call me to come and change her, which I'm very happy to do (it's just a short drive). Not sure if they'd go for that - do you think that sounds reasonable?