Thanks everyone for your advice and reassurances I keep having people telling me to do controlled crying and to wean her, I tried controlled crying for one night and it just feels like we're working against each other and doesn't feel right for us the last 2 nights I've brought her into my bed for cuddles for an hour then moved her to her bed when she is asleep and she hasn't woken up
people are always full of magical advice We've been told so many different solutions for DSs non sleeping, none of which suited our family, and you know what? Hes sleeping now, on his own terms, it was just a matter of time.