ok, can't help you much there as we did the catholic thing!

i guess the main thing is to check if there is an expectation of a white gown (most catholics have one) and any special "bits" - for our service, we needed a white candle with E's name on it and a white sash/stole. we got a traditional style "gown" - was a lot more exxy than most would buy, but it is one that will be handed down through the family now so i guess we were starting our tradition that way.

i hope you can get some answers soon hun.

i will say - earlier in her life was easier for us with how SHE responded. she had no fear of anything - SIL said that her eldest DD was easiest - she was youngest when baptised. i guess the less aware they are the easier it is kwim?

good luck with planning hun - most important thing though - don't let it stress you!! as much as you want the perfect introduction for your princess - people are there because they want to be there, not to judge what you've done and on what scale!