Hey Yeddi, like i said it's not an argument for trying to get you to come and do the same thing. It's a moment that may awaken and speak to a mother or potential mother that gets them asking questions and perhaps may be inspired to do something like this. I work with several families oz wide and there are so many scenarios as you have pointed out. Take what you want from it, and continue to do the job you have been asked to do in raising your children. I could go on, but won't. Go well