thanks for all the insight ladies. I think the reasons for us wanting to have Coby baptised are spiritual, but I guess being baptised catholic isn't really a must, we could have him baptised in another church I guess. I just don't want to NOT have him baptised and him regret it, like I did because my parents didn't have me baptised.

Like I said, I am not really religious, I have my own set of beliefs and I do believe that there is a god up there somewhere, otherwise I wouldn't have this precious little baby after loads of praying by us and other family members. But I would really like to give Coby the option of being religious if he wants to, I guess he could always be christened later on too, but I would really like to do it now for his spiritual sake. Silly isn't it, I just can't put my finger on why, but I really would like to have him christened.

I think we might go Anglican, as my DH was baptised church of england (anglican) so that won't be a problem. I guess I could always get baptised too.....