Oops I forgot about this thread! Baby brain still I think.

Thanks for your replies....Jayden is very silly in the bath most times, just lately he has been "swimming" and I am so scared he is going to get up and whack his head on the tap and he stands up while I'm in there. I have noticed though if I run out to grab a towel or get Ashlea (which isn't far from the bathroom) Jayden is pretty good and stays sitting. He has also got into having showers with me in the morning and I usually leave him in there after I'm finished for a little bit and I stay in my room with the ensuite door open so I can see him. Can't believe I never thought of a bath mat!! I have non slip frogs/lilypads which are pretty much only good for playing with!

Mel don't ever say you're a bad mummy! I have seen you in your mummying moments and you're a fantastic mum!

I guess there is no right and wrong just what you are comfortable doing, each child is so different.