awww *hugs* Look when Matilda hit 18 months I thought, hmmmm maybe we could do this, it took DH another month to come around and then we got PG really quickly. But there was No way I was having another child before she was 16 months It was so much more stressful then. Matilda started tantrums around 9 months and goes through them with her developmental stages. Sometimes we can have a good 2-3 days without a tantrum and things go so well (other than sleep ) but atm things are really bad & I am worried about having 2, I keep thinking other women are doing this.... but I know I am going to have to really rely on my support network in the next year.