It's a tough one that!! I HATE it when it happens, it's really hard to deal with. A lot of the time I try "diversion" - as in "let's dry off and then we can go and get a drink (we might go to get a coffee or something) but we have to hurry".... like a trade off in a way I guess. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Oskar chucked a wobbly this arvo cos I was in the drivers seat and not daddy.... go figure! They just want things the way THEY want them.