DD1 had a MASSIVE first birthday then she had basically a family party for her 2nd with a few friends.
She is not getting a PARTY this year but we will do dinner @ IL's and i am thinking of inviting some of our local friends (BB ladies) to the play centre the at some stage that week.. not as a party but as an excuse to play.
Next yr she will be in 3yr old kind so she will get a party.

DD2 didn't get a 1st birthday due to $$ and the fact it's right after x-mas but this year she WILL be getting a party.