thanks everyone. she woke at 4.40am this morning (argghhh) and daddy got up and waited until 6am to feed her the bottle, she was pretty happy just to have cuddles with him and i slept in (bless him). i can see your point regarding breakfast really early then always expecting it. she never wakes up through night for bottle or anything. so i might just continue with her bottle first. she skulls it too. thanks for your replies