We need help or I think my family may just fall apart.
DD who is 3 is going through a terrible sleep issue. She wakes 2-3 times on a good night - on a bad it's 5-6. She will not go back to sleep in her own room, she will only go back to sleep on the couch. I would have spent a good portion of every night for the last 3 months sleeping on the couch.

DS who is 9 months wakes frequently over night , you can get him back to sleep with his dummy most times, he does still have a bottle at 2am-ish. He domes times has 3 sleeps a day but mostly 2 at lunch then in the arvo but we are lucky to get an hr for each sleep.

DH and I are exhausted being up at least 4 times each a night.. We are st each others throats all the time and I'm really scared we will just fall apart under the pressure.

DD is so cranky and throws tantrums at the drop of a hat because she doesn't sleep properly. She doesn't eat properly either and it's a bad cycle.

Not really sure what to do... Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.