Thanks for all the lovely replies ladies!

Nessa - You're kids are gorgeous! Love your taste in names too

We took Annika this morning, and she was perfectly behaved the whole way through. I am shocked! I dressed her up a little bit, because DH is from an Italian family who are pretty traditional in some ways, in a light pink matching jacket, pants and shirt thingy, with roses on them. It was very pretty, and kept her nice and snug. Because DH had to carry the coffin, we had to be there earlier, and Annika fell asleep in my arms before the service started. She woke up about half way through, and I just gave her a non-noisy material book to munch on. When the service was over, she was all smiles. I'm very relieved to say the least. The actual funeral was beautiful, and a great tribute to DH's uncle. It's exactly as he would have liked it to be.