you're doing awesome! to answer your question directly. .. no. I don't think so. It's hard to switch off the overthinking in the beginning. lol I remember with DS1 completely freaking out saying I didn't know what to..... but really I did. it all got easier when I learned to shut down and just *feel* what he needed. take some time to just be with him and do what feels natural. you've done your research. you've got tricks up your sleeve. your instincts will tell you what to do.

I often exhaust all my tricks. When that happens I just do them all again if he's feeding often, chubbing up and has wet and pooey nappies, all is well

remember your first day at a new job. you felt overwhelmed and nervous about learning what to do no doubt. This is the same. minus the lunch breaks you'll be an awesome mother. because you care so much. Keep him close always and you can't go wrong.

congratulations again I wished this for you for a long time. oh and it's ok not to enjoy every moment like everyone tells you to. Sometimes I'm tired and just feeling sucky about the weight of responsibility. But then someone does something cute. And I'm back in the fuzzy feelings zone.