Thanks for all the encouragement.

Clare I read your thread after I posted and thought wow that sounds just like Cody, I know what you mean by a teary mess cause I'm like that too.

Kelly I would love to co-sleep but my DH is such a sound sleeper and he moves a lot, I did do it for a while with DS1 and he accidently rolled on top of him, luckily I was awake and got him off and DH was devastated that he'd done it without realising. And the cot will not fit in our room (it's a tiny one,lol). The GP did suggest putting a matress in his room, which is what I'm thinking may have to happen, I just want some sleep despartately. It's funny how none of my other boys ever did this, or maybe I don't remember it (which is most probably the case).

hugs xoxo