Thanks Mel!
Yeah the prob at the min is he is to big to put his legs in the "frog" position but his lil legs are not quite long enough (well they are bl00dy long) to go around my gut! Hmmm maybe if I scrunch the material in the middle abit that would help...

Um I have the BH that ties around my waist and then the straps cross over my back and tie at front or back..... I bought it off Mrs B26 - its awesome!!

He has been having some reflux / wind issues and I thought when he has them that keeping him upright might ease the issues....