I often will go down with Jovie so I laydown with her for a feed/nap when Matilda has gone to sleep. So that way I get some rest. Matilda only sleeps 1 1/2 hours and rarely do both sleep at the same time, so as soon as Matilda goes to sleep, I try to lay down with Jovie & feed her in bed and rest. I may get 20 minutes sleep somedays & that helps but after 5 hours at night & a tantruming toddler... I dunno if it helps that much.