It sounds like a great routine!

Ds is fed to sleep on the big bed at 8pm and I jump in next to him at 10ish. Dd is often in my bed from the start of the night too (like tonight), so Dh has a single next to our queen.

I love snuggling my kids. I think that's my best comeback...who wants to sleep alone??? Even 100 years ago only the very wealthy slept alone, most families had multiple kids in a bed.

We used to use a cosleeper, but ds was too big for it by ten months do now sleeps in with me and there's a bed guard (tbh the cosleeper was a bit of a pain, but worked as a bed rail and a good newborn sleeping space).