Starbright - please dont say sorry for suggestig formula, I dont judge people on wether they breastfeed or formula feed both are damn hard at times. We sound like we are in very similiar situations, there is no way I can rest so it is an uphill battle. There is a lot going on in my life at the moment and I know it is all affecting my milk. I tried lactation cookies but couldnt really bring myself to eat them, not a real cookie fan lol. I appreciate you replying to my thread. Sometimes I think formula feeding would be easier so I could get some rest and someone else could feed him lol. Good luck with the fenugreek. I will let everyone know how I go after the Dr's tomorrow. I managed to collect the tiniest amount of wee so will try and collect a little more this afternoon if he wees again. I am hoping its just a growth spurt.