Lulu I feel your pain. My first two slept through from very early, DD3 has thrown us a curve ball. Six weeks after getting over an ear and chest infection and taking antibiotics we are finally back to waking only once or twice a night. She also had tummy pain/wind which I think has improved since she started eating yoghurt with probiotics, if you or your little one have had antibiotics maybe her wind could be due to an imbalance in her gut flora?

I also hear you on the distraction during feeds but a dark quiet place to feed is a bit hard when I have a boisterous 3 year old under foot so no advice there!

Lots of hugs its so hard, especially with older siblings to care for xxx