4......What strategies do you use when your toddler won't do what you need them to? (I'm talking need, not want - like getting into a car seat to drive the car) When there is no compromise, be firm. Keep doing whatever it is (ie strapping her in) say what you have to do and why but don't say anything else or engage in argument. But try to pre-empt these co-operatation strikes. My DS always seems to be uncooperative when I've rushed him, or haven't listened to him, or didn't let him have some involvement in what's happening. I think communication is the key here & making sure they feel involved in whatever you're doing & not pushed around.
oh yes, that is true!!! You're right, reading that now I see that does indeed happen and my bad for pushing too much when I'm tired. I tend to forget to stop and listen and be patient, it's all just a rush cos I'm tired and can't get organised properly.