Jelvie i have nothing to add about sleeping, but i wanted to tell you that no matter what method of ANYTHING you use, how long you think about your decisions and how often you remind yourself why you're doing a certain thing a certain way, the mother guilt NEVER goes away! I guess mother nature wants us to be thinking about our babies and that combined with the numerous and crazily disparate opinions on everything to do with pregancy, birth and parenting mean we all spend most of our time feeling guilty.

You're a wonderful mumma, the very fact that you're here talking about this shows that. Hang in there lovely, it all gets easier.

H