If he wants to feed her have you expressed and let him try to do it in a bottle. He can still bond with her and she is still getting the booby milk Have him have a bath or shower with her and play with the toys. Even if she screams at the start she will get used to it. She is at an age though when they do seem to want their mums. But I would include DH in more things so that she gets used to him being there with her. Good luck