Thank kazoo and bright sparkles for your responses. I thought the same to that I should just nurture it and let it be what it is. I have to put my own fears aside I think! There have been three times she has bought this little girl up now and each time I try and get a bit more info from her about it - like her name/hair colour anything that she really wants to tell me. She has really good speech for her age so can tell me a lot but I think she intuitively picks up that I am a bit freaked by it so will change the subject after a couple of comments...