My DS is coming up to 12wks and I can count the number if day sleeps longer than 40mins on one hand... And the number of day sleeps in his cot (as opposed to bouncer or pram/car) on the other hand!

I remember with DD I was so concerned with getting her to sleep longer than one cycle but with DS it is only just starting to bother me. I'm finding it too difficult to spend the time in there with him TBH - I have to close the door so that DD doesn't follow me in and disturb DS and while I'm in there I worry about what DD is up to...

I'm hoping he will be super clever and just learn on his own...
I could have written that post! Except at 7 months I can no longer count how many longer sleeps DS2 has had (thank goodness!). But he's pretty good at the 40 minute nap, sometimes it's even the 30 minute nap. I just don't have the wherewithal to be resettling him every time. It's quite refreshing actually, not having time to be stressed about my baby's sleep Poor child