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  1. #1
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    Apr 2007
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    Spends hours 'fighting' the swaddle

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    Same... so I gave up and moved to sleeping bags. He is much happier with his arms out.

  3. #3
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    My DS hated being wrapped. I gave up on it and he was happy sleeping like a starfish.

  4. #4

    Oct 2008
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    She didn't like it but didn't fight it too much. I found she slept better when wrapped. But now I find that she is waking herself up trying to get out so we are in the transition phase at the moment and she has one arm out.

    BUT today we are going to move to the sleeping bag! I'm going to give her a wee bit of muslin to play with in her hands as I find them a problem - she's all over the place sometimes!!

    Some babies just don't like it Dusty.
    Sue xxxx

  5. #5

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    DS1 couldn't sleep without swaddling. DS2 hated it and we gave up swaddling really quickly.

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    lots of bubs love sleeping in the starfish pose. I saw a thing at baby bunting that was like a cross between a swaddle and a sleeping bag. their arms are still able to be in starfish pose, but they're covered like a swaddle so they don't hit themselves - does that make sense?. you just zip them up in it. can't remember the name of it, sorry.

    a friend of mine had great results with a woombie, but is that more like a swaddle?

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    We now have a Wrap Me Up swaddle AND a sleeping baby!! Fingers crossed she stays that way.
    Sue good luck with the transition. I think my DD sounds a lot like yours from your posts
    Lime I didn't even think of that as an option. DH however baulked at the idea cause of SIDs. How did you make it safe/work?
    Watching my sleeping baby.....


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    We now have a Wrap Me Up swaddle AND a sleeping baby!! Fingers crossed she stays that way.
    That's what I saw - hope it works

  9. #9

    Oct 2008
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    LOL, Dusty she sounds EXACTLY like Evie. Needs to be wrapped to get over to sleep but sleeps soooooo much better unwrapped.

    I have her asleep at the moment unwrapped but that was a fluke, we were out in the car and she fell asleep there and stayed asleep while I put her in bed - which has NEVER happened.

    Sue xxx

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    Dec 2007
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    Just put her down on a flat surface no pillows of blankets or sheepskins or anything, straight on her matress, elevate the end a little bit (assuming she is in a bassinet?). Try it at nap times first, and if you are concerned, keep checking on her (I did lol) but you can get breathing monitors and things, but we never bothered.
    Make sure her head is on the side, and move it to the other side every so often if she sleeps for ages.
    I found Charlotte was able to move her own head a lot earlier than everyone seems to say and she was very good at getting herself comfy.

    I was concerned to begin with, but soon realised this is just how she was - she was prosterior and I am a tummy sleeper (until I was almost 30 weeks) so I suppose she was used to sleeping on her tummy? lol
    Anyway, give it a go, you may find she sleeps much better and for longer.

    HTH

  11. #11
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    Dec 2006
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    Dusty you are right. It's all trial and error. DS1 loved swaddling. DS2 hates it. My little baby nephew has always slept on his tummy. I thought it was a bit confronting to see the first few times, but he was completly settled that way and his parents were sensible about how they did it (like LS said).
    Good luck with the sleeping - long may it last