Sounds like you have handled things beautifully Donna.

Its always a tough one, I would like to share a story from my childhood.

I was staying the night with the neighbours and without the details Male neighbour tried to touch me. I told mum what happened and she went psycho nuts at neighbour when he came over to say nothing happened (which it didn't but nearly did). Mum and dad contemplated going to the police, which they decided not too as they didn't want it to affect me for the rest of my life. They told us kids not to go over to neighbours any more but how can you tell kids not to see their friends any more?? Eventually neighbours moved away. Mum has always made me feel awful about it as she always says " I can not believe after what happened with neighbour that you still wanted to go over there"
I believe because it was "down played" I didn't understand why I shouldn't have kept going over there itms. so instead of not letting the nearly incident affect me for the rest of my life I have my mother making me feel guilty for it.

my moral is,

you have done the right thing in handling the situation the way you have, hopefully it will never happen again but if it does don't down play the seriousness as your child will not learn that she is in the right for reporting it .... dunno if that makes any sense....

well done hun in handling what would be a difficult, delicate and disturbing thing to hear your child say x x