So do I R! So do I! I am really going to try my best though. I am so glad we had a big chat last night before she went to bed. DH thought I was crazy, but then in the end when she was going to bed she told him she was a big girl and there'll be no milkies in the morning so at least I didn't just launch it on her. FX we get through it, cos I was at breaking point. How is DD going? I saw your FB post about the kids sleeping a couple of days back.