DESPERATE: Housebound With A Toddler - Give Me Some Survival Strategies

[fionas]

I just wanted to say thank you again for all the great inspiration. We've had the best week we've had in ages. DD got up this morning and instead of running straight to the TV (she's been watching far too much lately) she headed to the kitchen to find her paints. Bit of a meltdown when I insisted that she get dressed before we could start painting (I was expecting someone to collect her soon) but hey, I was chuffed.

Now feeling like a half-decent mum again.

[jackrose]

So glad to hear it, may the joy continue!

[AnyDream]

Fiona, some FDC ladies will pick kids up/drop them off...or there may be one just around the corner who could walk around. If you explain your needs to the office I"m sure they will take particular care to find someone who can help you.

[fionas]

thanks Marydean, the last time I enquired about FDC there were only two carers in the whole of our council area and I was told the chances of getting a place were very slim. I think it's unlikely we'd get a place given that we move in June, I'd only want one day a week AND want someone to collect/drop her off.

I do have the option though of getting in-home care for Kitty though which doesn't HAVE to be in-home, they could take her to the park for instance. The only problem with that, however, is that there's a four hour minimum and I can't expect someone to be out with her for four hours straight. But if I start feeling myself going potty, then that will be my emergency measure.

As I said, this week was a lot better so it now seems doable. Though DP was meant to have tomorrow off and is now working Saturday as well as Sunday which was planned. Slight grrrrr.

[Netix]

Glad you've had a great week! You'll come up with lots of things to do! When you move, we'll only be half hour apart, so I'm sure the kids and I could occupy DD for a while for you!

[fionas]

Oh that's such a lovely offer Netix, thank you!

[mrsmac]

What about finding a uni student who will take her to the park during the day for an hour or so for a bit of cash? DD only has uni for 3 days a week and I am sure a lot of other uni students are the same. Or a reliabel high schooler after school? Even pay a local child (say over 10yrs old) to come and play with her at home, I know of kids at school that do that to help mother's out and they are cheap!!