Okay I seriously need some advice. Our situation is like this, We tried controlled crying with DS1 for about 18mths after he was born and it didnt work for us so we started to co-sleep. When DS2 was born we put a cot next to our bed with 1 side off and DS1 slept in there while DS2 slept with us. When we moved last year we put them both into a bed next to ours. Now we have moved again and they have their own room and share a bed. DS2 can go to sleep alone, DS1 requires we stay with him until hes asleep- its annoying but okay.
The bad bit is when he wakes at midnight crying for mummy, and if I dont go in and sleep with him or bring him to our bed, if I just settle him back to sleep he will then wake about every 90mins crying for mummy.
I dont know what to do with him and in afew months we'll have baby #3.
Anybody been through this?
Anybody got some magic remedy or some advice?
I'd like to not have to go through this every night and have a full night s sleep before the new baby comes