Thanks for your reply. She loves massages, so that is a good idea for me to do more often. I totally agree that when you take a moment to just enjoy them and play with them, it feels less stressful all round. I am joining a structured playgroup with her next week and can't wait to have that relaxed time to focus on her where I don't have to worry about housework or any other interruptions.

That is a great point re babies with strong personalities growing into charming toddlers - I like the idea that my feisty, assertive little baby is growing into a strong, vivacious little girl!