Lol Fletch, was wondering when youd pop your head in. Totally know where your coming from though, all of you for that matter.
We just want whats best for our kids so if that meant gender swaying id certainly give it damn good go. There are so many sides to the coin though. Not every case is the same.
Im babbling sorry. Not all siblings get on is what im trying to say so there would be no guarantee that id get peace and harmony if i chose the perfect sex. Whatever that happens to be.

Thanks again, ive enjoyed reading all about your growing up experiences. Ill just let nature takes it course i think. And give lots of love and support and teach them to be nice, lol.