Hi
Yesterday I was given this advice by a friend of mind and would like to know what you think, and from your experience is it true?

She said: that if I cuddle my boy when he cries, eg her boy was banging mine boy on the head and scared him....a girl stole his biscuit and he cried, that he will become a sook and that I shouldn't cuddle him unless he is really hurt!

I love my babyand have waited 17 years for a baby, also I can never, ever remember my parents cuddling me so I want to show him he is loved. To me it's just basic instinct to cuddle him. Now I feel guilty #-o