I have had to call on a few friends to babysit for me for a couple of days as MIL has gone overseas for a month and I am still working. Even though I am looking after my friends little girl for 3 full days so she can work I still felt super guilty about asking her if she could look after my DD for me as well.

Silly that I feel that way as we both dont have any probs with it. But I do get what you mean