For me it kind of depends if what i need to do is urgent etc. DS has two sleeps but his afternoon one is usually the longest so i usually go out in the morning and try and make sure i amhome by 2pm but if I need to be out in the afternoon for something important than i do it. Where possible i try and work around DS but sometimes he needs to work around hs mummy lol i try not to feel guilty when that does happen as it so rare anyway.