I haven't read all of the responses. I give Steph sandwiches sometimes for lunch, but not often, if she has had toast for breakfast that morning.

However, often at dinner the Man will have bread out, and have pasta or rice sandwiches (one piece of bread, folded over with stuff in the middle), and Steph won't be eating much pasta or rice on its own, but will scoff several folded over sandwiches. Go figure. Maybe your tot could have pasta sandwiches for lunch?