I was just complaining about this exact same thing to my husband last night. Mine are good sometimes, like now they are playing together and leaving me alone but it won't last for long and they will be back climbing all over me again. For me its more that when they are on me, especialy the 3 y/o its really painful. She wiggles, pushes back, digs her elbows in places they shouldn't go, pulls on my clothes etc. I feel like I am being beaten up all day!! It makes me a little sad at the moment cause I am finding it hard to enjoy her company
I don't really have any tips for you, i will be watching to see if someone else does though.
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