No specific set bed time here because sadly i cannot program her to fall asleep on cue

We try to keep "going to her bedroom" around the same time usually 8ish but depending on the night she can take up to an hour to settle to sleep.

Day sleeps are just as bad I try to schedule her nap 5 hours from wake up time depending on how well she slept the night before.

I guess it depends on what your comfortable with, I wish DD would go to sleep earlier and stay asleep all night, but thats wishful thinking.

You could try a partial routine if you wanted to keep things predictable for him, but then not get too stressed if he doesn't fall asleep straight away ??

Nae x