I have to say Im the kind of parent who would prefer my baby at home in bed. So if I do want to go somewhere, I would be getting someone to babysit. With DD 1 I never took her ot people's houses at night, she just WOULD not go to sleep (even at 6 years old), so if I ever went anywhere, I'd leave her with someone. Not only is it better for them, but it's nice to have a break and not have to worry!! xo