I've tried the water and it worked, once! She caught on to what I was doing and won't take the water at night anymore.
She has a dummy but it doesn't settle her these 2 times. I tried letting her have a whinge and see if she self settles, but at these 2 times she won't and gets really hysterical, this is why I don't want to do controlled crying.
Do you think it would be easier if DH got up at these times to try and settle her, and not me? I'm thinking maybe cause she can smell me, she thinks she needs to have it???
Dunno, just with me being sick at the moment, I'm desperate for her to stop waking at these times.