I agree with Lucy, I don't think there is a right or wrong way to feel about this one

Personally I looked forward to Flynn growing up but now I am pg with # 2 I realise I didn't "enjoy" his baby hood as much as I should/could have. But that said I always look at him and think that one day he will be a big strong man with stubble and BO and am amazed by this fact. I think I do this so that I don't become a "smother mother" and cause problems in our relationship later IYKWIM? My BIL definately has issues with his mum/my MIL on this point, and my own mother always thought of me as her baby so that is something I am wary/conscious of.......