Steer clear of carbs with in a few hours of bedtime. They are more likely to cause her to have a sugar crash while sleeping and wake her up feeling - and behaving - like crap.

My personal opinion? Just stop giving it to her. Cuddle her, sit with her, whatever, but stop giving it to her - the same way you would if you were night weaning her from the breast. She doesn't *need* the bottle for survival, it is a comfort measure. Provide her with an alternative comfort measure (cuddles, songs, bum pats, etc) and she will move on.