We found it hard to settle into a routine at first, but ds had reflux so needed a lot of attention so it was hubby with the girls while I calmed down ds or vice versa. Dd2 has always been great she would happily get blankets, dummy's or give cuddles we just had to watch she wasn't too rough. Dd1 was in need of more attention and went backwards with toilet training in the beginning.

Nowadays we have a great routine we all eat together, the kids play happily they love getting the cars, trains or blocks out to play together. At times ds goes to a different area to play and dd1 has a table and chairs in her room she can escape to if it's too noisy.

I find I am busier but it's fun being around them.