I hate this aswell, but i normally just say ''thanks, but il keep it till later , its bed time soon and the suger sends her crazy'' then normally eat it myself....mwahahaha
I have told DH SO many times NO LOLLIES. he gets it i think but will still slip her the odd thing and some good friends of ours always say i mean not giving her crisps and lollies...and they wonder why i never ask them to babysit!!!!
An older friend of ours give DD a cashew nut the other day...a sugered one too...and when i said NO she asked ''oh, hasnt she had nuts yet'' dont you think thats something you asked first!! what if she hadnt and was alergic!! and not to mention she is only 15 months and shouldnt have nuts. grrrrrrr