Just to let you know you really aren't a bad mum... DS is like that alot! I have to be so careful. No soaps at all. Careful which MCN's I use, I used to use sposies while he was having probs, but now they cause probs too. MCN's have to be washed in bi carb, nothing else!
Poor baby can't even have bubbles in the bath! I can't wash my hair if he's in the shower with me.
Its so hard to keep track of it all, specially with 2 feral girls trying to wash hair etc!
He's red & swollen again today, I'm not real sure why, but I hope it clears soon!

All kids get infections They are kids! Its what they do best, lol