I think having seperate ones could work! Like Lucy said, if you want some tips let me know

A family bbq sounds great, and then maybe a mothers group morning tea with just some fairy bread, a birthday cake (or a cupcake cake in the shape of 1) and some biscuits & coffee etc.

I didn't have many babies at Paris' first birthday party, from memory it was only one of her friends. We had more older kids & adults.

Another suggestion is to meet up at a playcentre for morning tea with people with kids? Or ummm a tavern that has a play area?

There's lots of things you can do... but I totally agree its about YOU too

This will be your first Happy Birthing Day! (I know I know I've always said labour but I'm becoming more PC with age ROFL)

*hugs*
Cailin