I wouldnt stress. Although it's a long way off we are only going to have basically immediate family and maybe a couple of friends for Louis' first b'day.

I think it's crazy to go over the top with a first b'day as their not even going to remember it. That doesn't mean you don't make it special but why stress yourself out about it! I know I'd like to be able to relax and enjoy the day as well without running around after anyone but my little boy....