Yeah we did the combined birthday/dedication because I didn't want to have to go through more than neccesary. Basically we were going to have a BBQ in a covered park but it was raining so we moved to the basement of the church and I made some simple finger foods & invited 3 mums from play group & the BB mums near me that I knew at that time and a few family friends. We still had around 6 children & everyone just sat around chatting, relaxed....ahhhh....