When I had my 2 boys only 22 months apart I loved my front harness thingy lol (can't remember the name of it) I could still hold bubs and tend to toddler. When DS2 needed feeding DS1 usually watched or played on the floor at my feet. It is harder when 1 is sick but you just have to work out which one needs the most at the time. Take a deep breath and keep going. You will be fine xxx