i remember those stages according to Freud in my first year Psych course at uni. The next year, in Gender Studies, i actually got to read Freud's actual case studies of individual patients he treated. One young teenage girl Dora, he diagnosed as hysterical (cos she resisted her father's friend trying to rape her in a forest). Freud explained this as her repressing her psychosexual stage, and that she was abnormal for acting this way!!!!! supressing the stage he thought she should go through (by force at 14!!!!!).

(This was something i studied 15 years ago so my memory may be a little fuzzy about some details).

I would love to read some non-sexist psycho-sexual development stuff!